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The more sh*t you've been through,

the more you learn.  We were meant to pass on those lessons in order

to help others.

To aim for the top in all areas of your life, you need to aim for the middle of the extremes of thought & behavior spectrums.

-- Dotty Gevers

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Dotty coaches on topics that are typically only taught to hostage  negotiators, counselors, corporate team building retreats, counseling, or court-mandated classes.

 

Dotty whole heartedly believes these concepts and techniques should be embedded into the curriculum in every grade of school so people do not spend decades being miserable or making others miserable!

Aim for the Middle of

the extremes of thought & behavior spectrums to excelin all areas of your life!

  • Happy, Healthy Dating & Relationships 

  • Interpersonal Communication     

  • Conflict Resolution       

  • Perspective Taking       

  • Empathy Training 

  • Questioning Negative Thoughts About Yourself & Others   

  • Recognizing Mental Health Red Flags

  • Recognizing Unhealthy Thought and Behavior Patterns

  • Changing Unhealthy Thought and Behavior Patterns

  • Breaking Addictive Behaviors, including Dopamine

  • Toxic People & Situations 

  • Crisis Management

  • How to Leave Unhealthy Relationships

  • Finding Healthy Partners

  • Mental Health Red Flags     

  • Depression & Anxiety Healing   

  • Medical & Alternative Therapies & Medical Advocacy

  • Executive Functioning Skills for Personal Effectiveness

  • Motivation for Long Term Goals   

  • Employee-Employer Challenges & Resolutions   

  • Healthy Parenting & Parent-Child Relationships

Dotty's Journey to the Middle

Having grown up in 7 homes/families before age 8, and having been a nanny in dozens of homes in the East Coast & the Midwest, and due to being an INTJ personality, Dotty became a mini-sociologist who became adept at analyzing environments & noticing patterns in cultures & interpersonal dynamics. It came naturally to her survival skill for adaptability in ever changing environments

 

Her Bachelor's in Education and Grad School studies in Social Work consisted mostly of organizational leadership, psychology, sociology, the way people think and learn & performing developmental and psychosocial assessments, and forming individualized educational plans to cater to the way they learn best. She furthered her skills in training via her experiences with group homes and assisted living with forming monthly assessments, goal plans and activities to boost socioemotional skills as well as executive functioning skills to improve lives.  

Then she had a revelation! "What if we used this same method on "normally developing neurotypical people (i.e. "Neurotypicals") ? I mean, maybe we could produce SUPER HUMANS!?"  So, she used these methodsas a Professional Nanny and documented their amazing progress. Over time, she  became an expert on boosting Emotional Intelligence, & interpersonal communication to enhance the live of atypical and neurotypical people while enhancing her own life as well!

 

These techniques of pattern and trigger recognition, self control, communication, perspective, empathy, conflict reslolution, crisis management, and executive functioning skills have been proven to boost people's life happiness in any and all areas of life for over 30 years.

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